The situation: So I met this beautiful souled woman because of my best friend's GF (Tina).She's actually my best friend's girlfriend's best friend as well. But my friend and his gf are on a break so things are kinda interesting. Tina told me not to bother with her friend Bean (made up name) but after the 4 of us did a music festival together. Bean and I have definitely gotten a little closer than the previous 5 times we've spent together, which basically was talking every minute for almost 12 hours each time we spent together to get to know each other and she told me after this weekend that she realized we have the same heart. She's been out of a relationship since May, and I've been still living with my ex as friends, moving out in 2 months from now. I've known her since May but we really started spending more time together since mid July. And I'm very quickly falling for this woman. I can just feel it in my bones she's the one. And I'm so excited for every opportunity I get to be with her. She definitely likes me back but is taking it slow and checking off the boxes as she told me from the get go she's only looking for her fiance at this point.

The ask: This is probably the slowest I've taken a relationship as well since we're still kinda just friends, but our conversations keep getting deeper and more romanticized every time we spend time together. I want her to be my jelly bean you could say. How do I stop wearing my heart on my sleeve as much and make sure my feelings don't get into the way too much. She damn well knows I like her at this point. And I'm making sure I don't do anything a "boyfriend" would as well since we're just friends, but I did a little bit this weekend but I gotta stop that for now at least.