I've been talking to someone for about a month. I had a lot of fun at first, we talked about a lot of stuff, mostly through text. We met up for drinks and he told me he only wanted to focus on me and not anybody else. Then things took a sexual turn and we spent the whole day together and had a lot of fun, despite me not wanting to hook up yet initially.

Since then, I've noticed a lot less engagement from him. He did tell me he was going to be really busy because he was working on fixing up a van and had to finish by next week for a family trip and he was on call at work last week. He still texts me good morning and good night and responds to my texts really fast but he doesn't ask me a lot of questions about my life anymore. The only time he asks me questions is when it relates to sex. I did talk to him about it and he believes the emotional connection will take a little longer to grow. He has said he wanted to see me again but didn't know when because of his schedule, maybe tomorrow but he'll have a better idea when it comes time.

I'm 36 years old and have heard these words before. Only the guys that have said these things to me haven't told me they only wanted to focus on me so that's where it's tripping me up. Of course, he could lie about that part.

Regardless though, I'm starting to lose connection with him. I think I want to break it off but I just want to make sure I don't have breakup remorse. Are there any last questions I should ask him to make 100% sure this is the right thing to do?