Well I am done, Girls keep talking to me, sometimes I hit them up, other times they find me. There is variance in the theme, but the pattern is the same. We talk, hit it off, make a date plan. Then the day comes around and I either get ghosted, or nobody says anything until I call them up and get a “ ooh sorry, today won’t work let’s reschedule (plot twist it never comes). And my tolerant ass keeps letting it slide.

This time around I gave the girl an out and was very transparent with how I felt and why, she told me she really wanted to see me and wanted another chance, well today I held her too it and she failed the vibe check, expecting me to sit and and wait for her some more. Fuck that, I just left a voice message outright telling her I knew it from the start and I will not be anyone’s golden retriever. She was hurt but respected me for saying it.

This is the second one of these this month.

I think I am done dating (especially cis women), but I am not done telling people when they are using others or garbage human-beings. It seems to be the norm these days and I am not okay woth it.