Here me out, while yes it could change things itās arguably the worst advice in this sub. I personally live in a rural area with almost nowhere to meet people so I understand why telling someone/ being told to move can be very beneficial for meeting someone/ people HOWEVER people fail to realize people canāt just move location outta the blue.
Hereās a few reasons why. 1. Housing market: Pretty much everyone knows the housing market sucks and everything is way overpriced. It has been proven that at least 50% or more canāt afford to move in America. Rent is too high, Interest rates are too high, etc. Not to mention someone may be in a lease they still have 6 months on. 2. Job/ business: Iām gonna use myself as an example for this. I own my own business, and that business isnāt cheap. In order to move Iād need to pay to move that as well which includes finding a new space for that business. Thatās without mentioning my business is made for where I currently live, if I were to move elsewhere then my business would likely fail pretty quickly. A lot of people are in that predicament or work a job where that canāt move without finding a brand new job. 3. Just because someone can move doesnāt mean itāll help them. With moving not only are you risking the first 2 things but also your friends, family, and possibly their overall lifestyle. (Using myself again) I personally live a more rural/ country lifestyle. I know for a fact I wouldnāt do well in a more city environment and thereās many others who are that way & vise versa. You may have a very hard time keeping in touch with friends and family that youāll lose what you already had and if you donāt meet the type of person your after by moving then you did it all for nothing.
This is just my take, feel free to leave what you think in the comments
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