We’ve been on and off for several years. I recently moved to her town and started seeing each other again. Nothing serious but she introduced me to her kids. The reason for the on and off is due to my addiction. She’s scared I might screw up again. I won’t because I’m sober for myself. I’ve been sober for over 3 years now.

We went out for a nice dinner. She called me baby and was very sweet through the night out until the end. She flipped her script and ended it with me. I wasn’t emotional and I took it like a man but damn did it hurt.

She always told me that I would never meet her kids and on a whim she takes me to pick them up from her ex’s place. We spent a few nights playing and I bought them a gift. The kids adore me as much as I do for them. I’m heartbroken because of the kids at this point. I’d really like it to work out but she’s so scared and I can tell. She sees potential but is hesitant due to my past lying and drug addiction. I’ve been honest the entire time but as always I lost her.

I just need some advice dealing with kids in a breakup. I have a son of my own and she mentioned him to her kids. It’s a mess and I’m willing but I need to give her space.

Thank you all