Hey there. This is my first post and I just have a question. I met this girl on tinder and we hit it off. On her profile she mentioned she “occasionally smokes pot” and then we meet up for breakfast she tells me she has a cannabis card to buy pot. Ok not my thing but cool whatever I can’t do it, I have a cdl I get random drug tested.

Anyways so we hang out get breakfast and she says “excuse me a minute”. She steps outside and she starts smoking cigarettes. I hate cigarettes, they stink, people stink and their breathe stinks. I kind of voiced my displeasure and she said “yeah I’m sorry I’m trying to quit it’s just really hard”. I like her we get along great and she’s funny but I just can’t overlook the whole smoking thing it’s not my thing you know? Am I an asshole? I don’t know how to say I’m not interested just using that as an excuse. Does that make me bad? Any help would be greatly appreciated thank you!