As the title says I am 19. I’m from a rural area of Minnesota and having a hard time dating. Just looking for tips on how to get better at meeting people and dating in general (looking for long term so tips for that would be the best)

I’m not in school as I’ve graduated highschool however didn’t go to college so that has limited my options in meeting people. I also opened up my own business where I live so I can’t just pack up and move to a more populated area either. As for myself I’m a pretty outgoing person, however I do suffer a tad bit of social anxiety when it comes to approaching women in public as I don’t want to be seen as a creep.

I’ve tried all the dating apps however had very little success with those. I’ve also found that most (not all) of the women I talk to don’t seem interested in dating someone of my age for a few main factors. Main 1 Being that I’m (and most guys my age) not living on my own (trying my best to be though just can’t afford it) due to costs & home shortage in my area, 2. Not completely financially stable, 3. Too young despite them being of similar age, & 4. Not muscular. I’m not a bigger guy or have a dad bod (not skinny either just average) I also just don’t have the time/ gas money to drive to a gym that’s 40 minutes away everyday

All advice is appreciated thank you in advance