Heya! My name is Lily. 33. Trans woman. I use she/her pronouns.

I have been on dating apps since I’ve started transitioning and I’ve found it very difficult.

Avoiding death threats, especially the really creepy local ones that hit hard.

Dodging chasers who just want to talk to you because they want to try what they saw in the very realistic porn videos that they secretly watch.

Finding hope in the kind messages of a person who then tells you they messaged you because they knew you wouldn’t judge them because they wear adult diapers out of choice.

I’ve had sprinkles of luck, but it’s really difficult. And I wanted to shed some light on the subject.

I hope everyone is having a great day!