How to end it with someone you care about

This post has been de-listed

It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.

Post Flair (click to view more posts with a particular flair)

Question ❓

Post Body

M31 with a long term girlfriend of 4 years F29. We took a break last year for about 9 months. Against my better judgement, I decided to move back in with her and to be honest I am just not happy. She’s a great person but doesn’t quite understand my career and my aspirations. I’ve tried to break up with her multiple times but haven’t had the balls to do it. Essentially did it a month back but she talked me out of it.

How do you know when it’s time? How do you do it in the best way to minimize damage. I do care about her and love her but I’m just not really into the relationship anymore.

Author

Account Strength

60%

Account Age

3 years

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

Total Karma

Link Karma

Comment Karma

Profile updated: 2 days ago

Posts updated: 3 months ago

Excellent-Creme-1424

Subreddit

r/dating

Post Details

We try to extract some basic information from the post title. This is not always successful or accurate, please use your best judgement and compare these values to the post title and body for confirmation.

Posted: 1 year ago
Reddit URL: View post on reddit.com
External URL: reddit.com/r/dating/comm...