There’s this girl at my gym who’s absolutely gorgeous and has a good vibe about her, I can feel it but I’ve never talked to her before. I’m hesitant to talk to her because I feel like there’s some things about myself that I need to improve that would help me get and keep a girl attracted. Over the past couple months I’ve been working on myself. Working out, saving money, hygiene, and I have seen great progress, but, I want to make my life more interesting, make more friends, upgrade my wardrobe, decorate my place nicer, and be able to create a fun experience for people if they’re hanging out with me. So my question is should I befriend, build a rapport and advance for something more after I reach my goals? Or just forget about her.