Honestly curious about this I am 24 m I have had some terrible relationships that ruined my confidence due to the abuse I suffered I stopped dating for about 5 years now and I am currently barely able to let my self back into the market admittedly due to fear of further abuse.

so I figured I would warm up a little so to speak see if a women find me attractive at all and be just get to feel good with a few hookups to boost that lost confidence so I can actually be a decent boyfriend to some lucky lady in my future

My question is really would that give the circumstances be respected by lady's for admitting I am not ready for anything serious and currently want side fun or is it not liked at all an I should choose a different approach and if so what would you recommend.