Hi, Reddit, I'm Lily and I have a very clear idea of what I'm looing for! Okay, let me get any potential dealbreakers out of the way--

-I do not feel comfortable discussing kinks right away; I want to get a sense of who my potential partner is before we enter that category. Just trying to do better at setting boundaries, thanks! I use a wheelchair.

-I'm polyamorous, but I am a very loyal partner. You don't have to be as long as you're open-minded and flexible.

-I really want someone to spend my life with. This is non-negotiable and deeply important to me--please don't waste my time otherwise.

-I'm demisexual--feel free to Google the term.

- I'm kinky. I'm looking for a long-term, serious relationship--I don't do casual relationships.

-I'm open to long-distance, with the possibility of meeting up if we hit it off.

-I'm looking for a partner between the ages of 23-35, someone who is looking for something similar. Gentleness, patience, honesty and loyalty are very important to me.

-I'm still exploring my likes and dislikes as far as kink goes, so please be gentle, I tend to gravitate toward gentleness, pet play and being taken care of/taking care of someone. Collaring is very important to me; I take it as a sign of loyalty and commitment.

I would love a safe space, both mentally and physically, where we help each other grow as people; I don't have the emotional bandwidth for flings. I crave stability, gentleness and patience. I'm shy and geeky, with a genuine love for history (early 1900s and medieval are my favorites) and video games. My biggest passions are writing, anime/manga ,reading and video games; I'm into cosplay and finally dabbling in comic book stuff. My favorite video games are Dragon Age, Mass Effect, Pokemon, Legend of Zelda and Elder Scrolls. I'm 4'11 with long brown hair and green eyes, curvy but trying to eat healthy.