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35 London UK based little spoon for breastfeeding relationship. Dry suckling is OK as its never been about the milk for me.. more that relaxing bond but equally the idea of that bond becoming even stronger with milk is definitely exciting too :)
Straight & masculine looking/acting. Attractive, healthy, gym fit, non smoker (dealbreaker), don't drink much anymore either. Searching for a young mummy that is drawn to that gentle caring side of a relationship or a caring babygirl sister to care for eachother.
chilled, good sense of humour, nice person, outdoorsy and generally like to be active. Enjoy the gym and really like to play sports with people. Especially pickleball which is pretty much the most addictive sport I've ever played (if you know you know) Artistically creative, enjoy comedy, galleries, eating out, yoga, pilates, bike rides somewhere new is always a winner and discovering something new in London. Also partial to a game of chess or scrabble :)
I think I've struggled to figure out and accept the submissive side of me over the years. For obvious reasons i thought I needed to be this dominant guy and I tried to play the part. Naturally I can be a leader, assertive, and I guess masculine (not a fan of the word) So being sexually drawn to the gentle side of being a babyboy was always difficult.
I've only been with 2x girls (not that I don't get attention) The first one asked me to suckle her breast while falling asleep one night, and although I couldn't open up fully about my babyboy side it sparked something in me that I couldn't believe I had never thought about. Trying to keep this "masculine" mask on and wanting to do that was difficult. Ultimately the trust wasn't there for me to open up so it was never going to last.
Thinking about it, I've never really had the experience of being a little spoon. I suppose it's a vulnerable side that for a guy is hard to expose. There's nothing I would like more than to be cradled in my girls arms, head held gently in place to completely let go and softly suckle while falling asleep. I cab suckle for hours whilst asleep, and to have that connection with someone who craves it like I do would be amazing. It would create such a strong bond between us.
I've always been open to the needs of my partner (more than my own) and if finding a dominant guy to play with, even together I'm ok with that. I've never explored but always considered myself bisexual. I have searched but finding guys im attracted to is near impossible. The daddy fantasy is almost as exciting as the mummy one for me, although a fem type twink baby brother is exciting too.
One of the girls I was with years ago used to get attention everywhere she went. So in a bar even the bar staff would be obsessed. When we first started to date guys would ask her out in front of me like I wasn't there. Although part of me didn't like it, and she definitely liked the attention I remember the fantasy of being a cuck. I suppose the fantasy of a guy pleasing her in a dominant way was very exciting. And the fantasy of us both pleasing a dominant guy together was equally as exciting :)
Friends to start with would be great but no doubt there has to be mutual attraction, shared interests, and a real connection. If that developed into something more special that would be amazing too but no pressure from my end.. I'm a very genuine and honest person so trust is so important to me, but if there trust is there the possibilities for exploring is endless :)
Please introduce yourself properly if you get in touch :) Not looking to get to know anyone online so if you're not open to meeting sooner rather than later I won't be interested x
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