All posts looking for a partner on various subs, look the same. Every single one I have run into, looks just like the previous one. They all have pretty much the same monotonous write-up about the OP and what they are looking for, just rephrased from one to the next.

I want to try doing this differently and get the attention of seriously interested potential women, who match my quest.

Not to be typical but, I will start with my top 10 preferences.

• You are between 18 to 25 yrs of age as of December 2023.
• You are NOT of the Asian/ Oriental, Indian/ subcontinent & African race. But of any of the other races - Middle Eastern, Caucasian, Hispanic/ Latin, Indigenous (Americas and Oceanic).
• You are interested in an age gap relationship, obviously.
• You are looking for an inter racial relationship.
• You are someone without any romantic relationship experience in real life, not even flings. Someone looking for your "first" in every sense it applies to.
• You do not want either kids or pets.
• You are, non-religious/ anti-religion.
• You are anti-feminist/ not into all the woman empowerment stuff but believe in traditional gender roles - subservience and obedience being the core. However, you consider yourself very unorthodox, progressive and very unconventional in your ways.
• You are non-heterosexual in orientation and identify with any of the other ones.
• You identify as a demisexual or sapiosexual and desire boundless love, life-long romance and profound physical/ emotional/ intellectual intimacy and endless communication.

With that out of the way.....I am looking for someone who will engage in deep & long conversations about everything and for that sake.....I want to attract attention to 10 very important "aspects" that we must talk about, in our quest for a soul mate/ right partner.

1. CHILDHOOD/ PAST LIFE - (the most important, yet the most ignored aspect of our lives).

2. PSYCHOLOGY/ MIND & BELIEFS - (what is formed here, is based entirely on No.1).

3. MENTAL/ BIOLOGICAL HEALTH - (everything about our mental and physical ailments).

4. INSECURITIES/ ANXIETY TRIGGERS - (everything here is governed by No.2 and 3).

5. PERSONALITY/ BEHAVIOUR TRAITS - (everything here, is the outcome of No.2, 3 & 4).

6. INTERESTS/ PASSIONS - (we all have things we love to do, spend time on, hobbies or what not).

7. SEXUAL PERSONALITY (INTIMACY/ KINKS) - (to most, it is not so important; to others, it can be a deal-breaker).

8. BODY/ AESTHETICS & APPEARANCE - (to some, this does not matter; to most, it does matter and to the remaining, it is a deal-breaker).

9. PRESENT LIFE & SITUATION - (where we stand in the present, our commitments & engagements).

10. LIFE PLANS/ FUTURE - (where we see ourselves with our partner, the kind of lifestyle and combined aspirations).

The way I propose to do this, is by talking about each topic starting from No.1. And if we do not click at No.1, we do not proceed to No.2. We keep going numerically and at whatever point we clash; we stop and part ways, saving ourselves any further trouble and time. We express to each other, what we are looking for in our partner for each of those topics while sharing our own side of the same.

The goal being, to find the most compatible partner with more than 50% match/ overlap on every topic. And it is obvious that there will be "deal breakers/ non-negotiables" for every topic, which will also need to be declared as we go.

If you are serious and find this to your liking, let me hear from you!

The way I see this, is to do away with the same monotonous reading of posts, then commenting and then fizzling out like nothing happened. I am pretty sure that most people who post these things, are just indulging in a compulsive behaviour and are not really serious. Reddit is all about posts and comments innit? And that is all that people here do.

So, I want to actually get us talking and getting to know each other and not go off of a post, which really does not do anything more than supply a generic read-through. I want to actually engage with someone serious and discuss things, like it truly matters.

Most relationships fail, because there isn't much talking right from the start, there is just 'going with the flow'. And then they end up discovering stuff about their partner, that they did not bother checking when they should have right at the beginning....and end up disappointed or feeling betrayed or let down or any other negative feeling and start secretly disliking their partner and turn to Reddit to post about it. Why not 'go against the flow' and address the seemingly insignificant but consequential things, right from the start?

That is what I intend to do with you.

P.S. If you are the type to wander off/ disappear without warning from chats/ messages or if you do not have the time or will to indulge deeply or if you cannot guarantee a consistent rhythm of interaction, have choppy half-hearted responses to offer, then ignore this post altogether.

Note:- If you read this and do not like or disagree with anything, there is no need for comments. This is a very specific post for only those ladies, whom it attracts positively. And if it does not, no harm no foul.

Not everyone is meant to want what is common. Some of us want something too grand, outrageous, extravagant and outlandish. Some of us want that which is almost impossible, almost.