I know everyone is like "oh do this with the soapstone" or "set this as the password" but me and my friend have been trying for so long... (lvl 16 and 17 on brand new games) and we can't find each other! Please help, Idk if there is some other thing we have to do EDIT: Ok we both have used embers (I knew that part, forgot to list it) but the odd thing is that I can be summoned but I can't summon him. My level is within 5 or so levels (since we had played a bit more) and im not sure what SL/WU nor what PW is. I can look those up but other than that im clueless (no my buddy isnt in japan) EDIT2: looked at what SL is, and I got to the wiki and it says that using a password (PW) removes that effect. !!!FIXED!!!! It turns out you just have to wait 3 minutes w/ matching passwords (case sensetive)