i’m fuming right now. i was trying to set my boundaries with an ex-lab partner. telling him the way he was touching me so much and talking to me made me uncomfortable and i didn’t want to talk to him. he proceeded to guilt-trip me a bunch. saying he doesn’t want me to be suicidal and depressed and i should r cut him out. he psychoanalyzes me, telling me he can tell a man did something to me when i was younger. and then proceeded to accidentally send me a porn title of age-gap fetish porn. i’m so mad. how are you going to try and pretend you know my boundaries and my trauma better than me, and then send me PORN related to my trauma??!? it’s so unbelievable im so mad.