I created this community because I wanted a place for like-minded people.

My wife and I have been married for over 20 years. We spent the first 15 years or so being a pretty vanilla and typical heterosexual couple. But we began to shift slowly toward a female led relationship where my wife assumed the dominant role in our relationship both in and out of the bedroom.

That female-dominant dynamic ultimately changed the way we have sex. My wife admitted that while she enjoys sex, she has never enjoyed doing work during sex. She doesn’t enjoy having to please a partner. She just wants to lay back and be pleased. She was nervous to admit this, but it ultimately became the key to unlocking our increasingly stagnant sex life. We agreed soon after that going forward our sex life would only include cunnilingus for her and it would end when she is satisfied. We no longer have intercourse. My wife does not touch me or reciprocate in any way.

Instead our sex is focused completely and solely on her pleasure. It sounds crazy, I know. But we have never been more connected or had more passion. Her orgasms are my orgasms. She needs to be pleased and i need to please her. Her pleasure satisfies us both. The removal of sexual stimulation for me is also beneficial. With no stimulation, my body has become incredibly sensitive and I often cum while going down on her. And It keeps me in a constant state of excitement which is arousing and fun. And of course she allows me to masturbate after she’s been serviced.

I never would have thought that I would be okay with an arrangement like this, but it’s the happiest we’ve ever been. She no longer feels like a bad wife for not wanting to do what is expected of a wife. And I feel loved, valued and appreciated like never before. My wife loves her pussylicker deeply. We both win.