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Hi, Thanks for taking the time to click on my post.
I would like someone to spend time with on the weekends and evenings.
I, myself, am not a home-body. I get out as often as I can,
but a big part of what I'm looking for, is someone to consume media with at home (Movies, TV, Music, possibly video games) (your home or mine).
I want someone to cuddle with while consuming this media (comfy clothes on, cozy, head scratches, shoulder rubs, hand holding, no further expectations on my part).
I'm not necessarily looking for a homebody/shut-in/Agoraphobic/Socially anxious person, but if you are... I can work around that, and bring the cuddles and media to you. Someone to cuddle and consume media with is my bare-minimum.
I don't want a Trump Supporter.
As far as Religion is concerned, I am an Agnostic (former Christian),
And I have no issue with whatever religion you practice, whether it's Christian, Buddhist, Muslim, Wiccan etc... Sadly, I consider support for Trump to be a form of Idolatry/Idol worship. It's an extreme that I cannot get behind.
I'm not looking to be the 3rd or 4th wheel in someone's Polycule.
I'm not looking to be with anyone who's married, or in a relationship already.
I'm also not looking for anyone that's looking to swing, or to open up our relationship (in the event that our relationship moves beyond the point of platonic cuddling, which I am open to, but also not in any kind of rush for).
I'm not into horror movies that feature excessive (non-comedic) Gore/Torture.
I'm not into reality TV (exceptions to this would be wholesome "Reality TV" like Ru Paul's Drag Race, Mythbusters, Great British Bake off etc...).
I'm not into cigarette smokers.
I gravitate towards people that are feminine in appearance/presentation?
(hair on the longer side, not afraid to apply makeup, etc...)
About me:
Gen-X, Straight-Cis "AMAB", 5'10, 155lbs, Caucasian, clean-cut brown/grey hair, blue eyes, grey/brown tidy beard (I am not overly attached to my facial hair, it's negotiable).
I am a t-shirt Dickies Pants Hoody kinda dude.
I am chill/laid-back, kind, respectful.
I have a punny/dry sense of humor (Like Mitch Headberg, Norm Macdonald).
I am an IT nerd by trade, a music geek by hobby.
I enjoy 80s Movies and Music, and 80/90s inspired Funk/Soul Synthpop/New Wave Techno/IDM/Acid, Surf, Synthwave.
Fave bands include:
Aphex Twin, Men I trust, Depeche Mode, Naked Eyes, The Beach Boys, Thundercat, BadBadNotGood, Hotel Pools, Ginger Root, The Human League, Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana, MxPx, Portishead, Sneaker Pimps, Nirvana, Weezer, VNV Nation, The Ventures, The Supremes, James Brown, Yaz, Kraftwerk
I like Sci-fi (robots/Ai, time travel, dystopian, dream exploration).
I like Comedy, and Comedies, Sitcoms.
I like Drama/Thrillers/Mystery/Adventure.
I am not the Jealous, Possessive, nor Obsessive type.
I am neither egotistical, demanding nor impatient.
I don't drink, (It's okay if you do).
I don't do drugs, (But I'm also not anti-drug, please party responsibly)
I am not a player (I don't even crush a lot).
I am honest, almost to a fault
(but not honest like "Does that offend you?, I'm just being honest."
Honest like, if there's a piece of upsetting news that could impact our dynamic, I'm not going to delay telling you, or keep secrets. I'll just tell you, because I would rather deal with the reality of the situation, than construct a complex web of lies that's bound to unravel at some point and cause way more pain in the long-run).
I'm easy to get rid of.
(Why would I want to force someone to engage with me that doesn't want to engage with me any more? That seems like more trouble than it's worth.
SFW pics available on request.
I think that covers most of the juicy tidbits.
I look forward to hearing from you.
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