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I'm looking for someone willing to go slow and be friends first for a while who would be later open to physical contact cuddling down the road. Without the expectation or pressure of it becoming sexual or romantic. A friend who understands how important platonic physical contact is for human beings who I can trust to treat me with respect as I would extend the same courtesy to them.
There would be a vibe check, like a vid call or coffee first to see if my friend who is open to future cuddling is someone I can be physically comfortable around and vice versa. I can't host and any suggestions of good locations would be welcome. I need to go slow, like leaning on my friend at a cafe first or something.
I don't get any comfort from cuddling if no trust is built and that takes time with a new friend who understands.
Non-negotiables:
- Age: 25-50
- Friends first and go slow and organically at a pace I'm comfortable with
- 420-free, non-smoker and no alcohol or strong smells (I am sensitive to many strong scents)
- Respectful of my boundaries and an adaptable communicator
- In tune with body language and cues, including withdrawal and requests for more space
- No pressuring for sex or romance of any kind
- Not in a pre-existing connection in which cuddling with me would be considered cheating/infidelity in their partner(s)' view.
Probably will only respond to those who provide a SFW photo and a solid intro that is compatible with what I'm looking for.
Thank you for reading.
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