Hello! My husband and I in Texas are super interested in trying this. I’ve been fantasizing about him having sex with another woman for years with me involved of course but we aren’t sure how to go about making that connection with someone. We’ve had the deep conversations about it, set rules, talked about after math and how to handle any possible jealousy that may arise, and gave eachother the option to back out last minute if we decide we aren’t for it. But how do we meet someone? It feel weird advertising that we’re looking for a woman, especially on dating sites bc almost everyone in our town is military and we’d like to keep this private. This isn’t an advertisement btw, I’d just like some tips and advice! Maybe a club we could go to or a meetup / event? We aren’t interested in swinging with another couple (I don’t want another man), just a woman for us both to enjoy and give her immense pleasure. TIA!