One time she commented that a friend of hers was very pretty and without thinking I said something like yeah she is. Some time later she surprised me when we were making out and well on our way to sex by asking me what I would do to this friend of hers if she were there, and it was clear she wanted some sexy and descriptive answers. She got really excited talking about it and soon this oblivious friend of hers was a constant feature and even main character in our sex life. It was like, oh, we're making out? Let's start talking about her friend, every time.

You could accuse me of being a poor communicator and you'd probably be right but I never sat down and had a "Talk" with her about what the actual deal was. That would be too awkward. I just accepted it for what it was, and knew when we did end up hanging out with this friend that I would 100% be getting lucky with my ex later that night and we'd talk all about how sexy the friend looked in whatever she was wearing that day and what I'd do to her. At first I thought wait, this woman (my ex) is just bi or gay and into this lady, but eventually two new factors came into play.

1) She mentioned while hooking up that this friend had bigger boobs than her, and it was true so I went along with it and built on it, how I wished I could fuck those big tits instead. So another feature we started bringing in a lot of talk was specifically about how this woman was hotter than she was. I remember she particularly liked this one comment I made that it was "crazy" because the woman had a better body than she did AND had a prettier face. I don't know if this is its own kink or what. 2) She later on asked me if there were women at work I'd like to fuck and had me look up pictures and show her. So then it wasn't always focused on just this one particular friend all the time anymore, but all the other women I'd rather fuck or who were hotter than she was in this or that way.

We eventually broke up for unknown reasons (did I mention poor communication?) but in hindsight I wonder if she was a cuckqueen, or if it was something else. At no point did she suggest we actually bring in other people and she at one point mentioned not to tell her friend about our activities to which I said "of course not." Any thoughts?