A few years back my wife and I had a MFF threesome. Since then my wife has been interested in exploring cuckqueening. Recently we have had a discussion about her interest and decided to start making things a reality, but honestly we don't know where to start.

We made some posts a long time ago to r/dirtyr4r but didn't get much traction. I have looked into apps like feeld and 3fun but they are both plagued with horrid reviews and I question if they are worth our time and money. Are there better communities, dating apps or other websites that will help us meet our goals?

We have thought about trying to meet a woman IRL but that seems daunting. I have been out of the dating pool for close to 15 years and quite honestly I am kinda of an average looking 37 year old. It seems awkward to start flirting with a woman and before it goes anywhere I have to say "Oh by the way I am married is it okay if my wife watches?"

Personally I would feel much more comfortable going through a process in which my wife can be involved, at least at first, to ensure no boundaries are unintentionally crossed.

Thank you for any guidance you can offer.