I'm here for advice from anybody in "the field " .me(24 M) and my gf (27F) have been together for 3 years now and we are open about everything and anything I feel like she is the girl I'm gonna grow old with . Recently we decided to pack up our bags and move to Seattle but during the packing she found an old phone of mine that I haven't had in years . She found old "home" videos of me and old partners and explicit messages and photos .when I got home she told me she charged it and went through everything. I apologized like crazy but it was all before her time and I forgot to factory reset or whip the phone or whatever but even before she went through the phone we do a good job at making sure that we have access to each other's phone with zero restrictions because there is nothing to hide.I factory reset the phone and stored it fora just in case back up phone.cut to 3 weeks before valentines 2024 and I wanna get her a gift that involves a photo she had of us in her phone and while she was sleeping I went to the room to retrieve it trying not to wake her and it was open to an old "home video " of me and an old partner. She had screen shots of old sexting threads and photos and videos from that phone saved on her phone on a hidden folder . It was shocking and it took a bit for my head to wrap around what was really going on but it's also the first time she's hidden something from me like this (as far as I know) and I'm not a kink shamer and she praised me before for making it a safe space to try out things we have desired or new stuff so im not sure if I should just let this die with me or confront her ,help?