I’m a denial CQ too. This year as a resolution we’ve agreed on a no sexual intercourse arrangement with each other and so far stuck to it. Our last sex together was in between Xmas and new year and was super spicey as we had both acknowledged it would be the last time for an undetermined amount of time.

Since then I give him ball play and handjobs. Sometimes to make him cum, sometimes not depending on his mood.

Meanwhile he’ll touch my pussy once a month and no more and make me cum. In between times I’m to masterbate solo. He doesn’t want to know when.

And he gets go have sex when he likes with a FWB. She doesn’t like the term cake so she is referred to as his ‘friend’. She knows about me and is happy with this set up.

I can always tell when he’s just seen her, is about to see her, or hasn’t seen her in a while.

Because when he sees her and he’s just has sex his cock is chunkier. Swollen almost when I touch it.

When he’s about to see her he doesn’t want me to make him cum with a Handjob. A clear sign he’s building himself up for a decent sex session.

And when he hasn’t seen her for over a week or so he begs me to make him cum and it’s a full load everywhere

Happy to swap stories and share insights on this.

It’s a v hot dynamic