TLDR; Dynamics evolve. How did you find your way to becoming Cuckqueen? Are you a woman who does or did have the dynamic of primarily wanting to be present for watching and have evolved to separate play? How did that evolve for you?

My SO (52F) introduced me (52M) into the LS. Our dynamic is typically MFM or FFM, as she both really gets odd watching me pleasing another woman and also likes playing with them herself. We’ve been at this a couple years now and had many successful encounters and there have never been any issues with our dynamic, aside from the fact that my SO tends to be very passive, if not submissive, which is often misinterpreted by other women as lack of interest and chemistry.

We were recently with a unicorn which was good overall, but the unicorn feels a lack of chemistry between her and my SO. The chemistry between the two of us though is really strong. Unicorn has expressed that she may not want to play with both of us again, but would love it if I were able to play separately.

My SO could be open to separate play but it sort of goes against her turn-on of watching me satisfy the other woman. Interested in your perspective and experience.