Long story short is: my wife recently discovered she’s a cuckquean. So far, I have not “cheated” on her but we have done some role playing and that helped a bit but she really wants me to step out on her. Problem is, I have no idea where to look.

We’ve been married for 14 years and dated for 4 years prior to that. Needless to say I’m a bit rusty when it comes to finding other women lol.

I’m a good looking guy with a muscular physique so I’m not afraid of not being attractive. It’s just I don’t really want to use tinder or similar apps because I’m worried people I work with may find my profile and assume I’m being an unfaithful asshole - and I don’t want to out my wife’s fetish trying to explain myself.

How do you guys find local play partners? Do you find you have to do a lot of explaining things? How do you avoid sounding like a creep?

Any and all help is greatly appreciated.