Okay, so been with my girlfriend for nearly 17 years, and during that timeframe there have been several instances where during sex she's made comments about various girlfriends she has or random strangers we have encountered during the course of that evening, things like, [so and so] "was eye fucking you tonight I bet she is fucking herself imagining you fucking her" or "[so and so] looked good tonight bet you wish you could eat both our pussy's" only once did she hit me with "your cock looks so good in my pussy but I wonder what it looks like in [so and so]" and then there was the time on Ecstasy she actually tried calling a couple girls, but that was at the beginning and I felt like she was just showing out a little. Recently though she's been sending videos of me jerking off to random women on Reddit (caught her but haven't said shit) on some "look at this mans beautiful dick, tell me how bad you wish you could fuck him" type shit...if she was wanting me to fuck other women why the hell wouldn't she just ask? Is it just the fantasy of it, or is this something that is like a precursor to realizing this is a kink of hers? I'm obviously not opposed to it, I mean I've always engaged with her during sex, but I had just assumed it was just talk. How do I see if she wants to go to the next level?