We have 2 toddlers and haven’t been on a date night in almost 8 months. I live 800 miles away from my family so they can’t really help as far as babysitting and for some reason, his family chooses not to be active in our lives but can take all the other nieces and nephews all the time. (My husbands always been the scapegoat/black sheep)

Anyways, since we don’t have anyone to watch our kids hence can’t go out, how is one supposed to meet other like minded people in the lifestyle. Tried fetlife and all the other sites y’all are gonna throw at me. It just sucks wanting to meet like minded people but can’t really get out there to do it