My wife and I started cuckolding after talking for months during COVID lockdowns. We’d discussed an open relationship etc. before lockdown, but spending months talking about sex and stuff led us to realize cuckolding would work well. I was turned on by the idea of her being with others, and she wanted to explore sexually and explore kink interests she always had.

At the root of things, she is sub and I am sub as well, so kinky play and even sex in general never worked great between the two of us. We didn’t fully know to articulate that at the time, but that’s sorta what we learned since. We set our rules and boundaries etc. and she started to play when things opened up.

She’s had 5 partners in the last 4 years, all long term and steady (which is what she prefers). She only play by herself, I don’t watch or join - partially her choice, partially just situational. I mostly want to tell a story from her current partner though - she’s been seeing him for about 6 months now and this is the first time that she has a full blown D/s relationship.

They do a lot of stuff - normal vanilla stuff like going bar hopping, vanilla sex etc. but over time it’s shifted to more D/s regularly. They have rules and punishments set, and do BDSM stuff for fun as well. I can explain more about all that, but the main thing I wanted to post about is the new situation that we have as of about 6 weeks ago.

As things have escalated, they wanted to step things up so we all met up to talk a few times. I had never met her previous bulls/partners so this was new, but it was really good. Put me at ease with him and helped us hash things out quickly. One of the things that we all agreed to over a few conversations was the idea that she is “On Call”.

Basically, if he texts or calls she has to answer immediately or get back ASAP, and if he tells her to come over, she has to drop everything to go to his place.

Words of caution here: we all have a safeword, she agreed to this, I agreed to this, we all agreed to it as part of the play. This is of course barring anything very important that she is doing. Additionally, he generally knows her schedule and only ‘calls’ on her when she generally can.

It’s been REALLY fun and a total mindfuck to explore this dynamic. The texts/calls are usually pretty private or idk, I don’t see that happening a ton, but the calling her over is so intense. Usually he will tell her to come over once we’re settled for the night, but he’s also done it mid day when neither of us were expecting it at all. When she goes from our house she has to go over just in sweat pants and a sweatshirt, no bra or underwear, so it’s always so hot knowing what is going to come next.

If she can’t go immediately - i.e has something she’s in the middle of or has to deal with, then she has to explain the issue. If it’s work or parenting related then it’s exempt and she just goes when she can. If it’s something that would be an inconvenience but not related to those two exempt issues then she gets a light punishment. If it’s something not important, then she gets punished a lot more. She also has to hand write an apology to him if she’s late.

The other thing this has kicked off is that they have other rules about stuff including her being shaved, so now that she is on call she has to maintain it 24/7 otherwise she can be punished for that as well.

From my side, this is one of the most extreme but hot things we’ve ever done. The feeling when she comes into the room and tells that she has to go is unlike any other mindfuck I’ve experienced - then seeing her go get changed, grab her things and leave is so so intense.

When he initially brought this up, she and I talked about it - and I asked her if SHE wanted this too, and ultimately she said yes. The thought of having to jump up and go, knowing it’s for sex, no matter what is going on turned her on and made her feel like she was truly, truly submissive.

We’re still figuring out little kinks in it and learning how it all works, but I’m glad that we’re doing it.