I’ll try to be brief with this and not get over complicated. So there’s this guy I went to high school with that we were somewhat friends but more like we had mutual friends and sometimes hung out because of that. He was an asshole really, short and small and non threatening in my opinion. Let’s call him, Mark.

In high school I had 3 total girlfriends throughout my time being there, two were very brief and one stretching 4-5 years from high school until after while at college.

So it’s high school, we’re all immature and date around so it’s not totally out of the ordinary for Mark to date my exes. So my first two girlfriends that were brief had also dated him and that’s when I first found out from one of them that he had an exceptional sized penis. Whatever doesn’t matter, I wasn’t invested in those relationships. So high school ends and I don’t talk to Mark because we weren’t really friends anyway, only occasionally see him on social media.

My longest relationship from high school like I said before stretched into college. This was a serious relationship, we had expectations of a future together. It was a typical relationship of breaking up and getting back together, we didn’t go to the same college and they were some distance away. But after so long of doing this, I decided to tell her we needed a break, a longer one. At first we still talk to each other all the time and talking about getting back together but then she slowly answered less and less and it stopped being a conversation that lovers have and turned stale.

Seemingly that relationship was completely over now. I see that a mutual friend of mine and Mark hanging out and my ex is there, I try not to think about it but I didn’t think they had any contact with each other, he still lived in our hometown while she was at college a decent distance away. I do try and text my ex but she doesn’t bother to answer me and time goes by, probably a month and I get a text from my ex, it’s been so long that I don’t answer and wonder why all of a sudden she texts me back…

My jealously gets the best of me and I text a mutual friend of mine and Mark’s and asked him what’s up. So eventually I ask the direct questions and find out that Mark and my ex were hanging out. I pry a little more with my friend who at first didn’t want to tell me but said that they were fooling around for about 2 weeks. I didn’t believe him, he said it was true and that Mark showed him nudes of my ex on his phone, she never sent me nudes ever. I get more details and it was apparently Mark that cut it off. My ex who at one point I thought was marriage material and having a long relationship of almost 5 years with, was worth only 2 weeks to Mark. So now he has been with 3 of my exes which I still think is a coincidence.

Months pass and I move on, I start hanging out with this girl that goes to my college. We really hit it off but as friends but I really like her and want to be with her. We get drunk one night and sleep together but only once does this happen, she’s really not that interested and we kind of drift apart. We’re still friendly and see each other on campus.

I strike up a conversation with her and asked what she’s been up to lately and she tells me she is seeing somebody for about a month and his name is Mark. I try not to jump to conclusions, it’s a common name but at the same time my college was close to my hometown. I try to ignore it long after our conversation ended but I couldn’t. I try and stalk social media for any clues. I see that my ex (college one night stand) posted a picture with friend and Mark commented on the picture something flirty and she responded flirty back. It has happened again.

I see her around campus again and pry. She is no longer seeing Mark, she said they had a lot of fun but he broke it off, not wanting to be in a committed relationship.

This can’t be all coincidence at this point.

I have been in a relationship for years now and have married her. But if for some reason we broke up, do you think I should be concerned or should I be concerned he is already weaseling his way to her?

I know this isn’t conventional cuckoldry but I feel like it’s a different kind. Mark has slept with all 4 my exes. He treated my long term high school ex to a short two week hookup that wasn’t worthy and my one night stand to a month of pleasure…