My wife and I are a typical successful, well educated, middle class white couple in our 30s. She is a lawyer and a passionate feminist, beautiful and fun but also confident and knows how to get what she wants. You don't rise up in her world without being like that.

We had gone out for dinner and drinks to celebrate her having finished a big case. In a good mood, we ended up doing a little bar crawl and ended up in a really lively dive bar that was standing room only. He came up to us - or her specifically - pretty immediately. He must have been about 21, tall, muscular, tattoos.

She tried to bat him away nicely, joked about his confidence, told him she wasn't interested, etc. But he wouldn't take no for an answer. She said she was married, he didn't care. She said she wasn't interested, he said she was. She said to leave her alone, he grabbed her ass. She said no means no, he said that's just what white girls say when they mean yes but can't say it.

Instead of seeing her fight I literally watched her melt. And he knew it too.

What's a guy supposed to do when some young thug leans in and kisses his wife, and he kisses back? I was shocked. Too shocked to react.

She told her he only lived round the corner. He still has never ever spoken to me. He took her by the hand and led her out, she just looked at me utterly powerless.

I waited in the bar until it closed, then waited on the street. Eventually she texted that she would be back in a minute. We got a cab home in silence. We ripped each others clothes off at home and I sunk my cock into her loose pussy and felt his cum... And it was incredible.