My wife has known about my fantasy for years. We've roleplayed/fantasized about it a lot. While on a recent trip in Italy, she had her first "hotwife" experience. She met a van driver during one of her work events who she was attracted to. They exchanged numbers and began chatting. They continued to chat for a few days and she figured out a way for him to be her driver across on her trip across Sicily.

Through the whole flirting stage, we were chatting. She was telling me everything they were chatting about. Nothing too sexual, but definitely flirtatious. I was encouraging her to meet up with him the whole time. She was somewhat hesitant at first, but she finally agreed that she wanted to.

The morning he picked her up, he came to the hotel and up to her room to help with her bags. They immediately starting going at it. He stripped her down, laid her on the bed and started going down on her. She loved the way he used his tongue and fingers to get her really horny.

She asked if he had a condom, which he didn't, so he had to rush to the store to grab some. Once he got back, they started once again, but they had limited time. He had another job right after her and couldn't be late. So they only had five minutes to fuck and he was having trouble performing with a condom on, so they weren't able to finish in the hotel room. She was a little disappointed by his size and performance, but she loved his fingers.

On their drive, they stopped several times to make out. At one point, he was fingering her while driving. Her panties were in the way, so she just took them off. He continued to play with her pussy on the whole drive. She said he was really good at it, she was panting and breathing heavy, loving every second of it. But, she was never able to cum and neither was he. Once they got to the new hotel, they had to act professional, so they had to leave it at that.

She's told me every detail she can remember, but she said it was kind of an out-of-body experience. She continues to chat with him here and there, but it's definitely not as sexual. I guess the spark is somewhat gone.

The whole experience has definitely brought us closer and we've had some really open conversations about this lifestyle. I'm so happy she's finally taken this first step to becoming a hotwife. She even mentioned that I "normalized" the scenario with all of the hot talk and open conversation about it, which is why she was ok going through with it. For all of those guys out there that roleplay/fantasize with their wife about it, I'd recommend just keep doing it, just don't pressure her into it.

All that being said, I really want more. Would love to find a local guy for threesome fun, but she hasn't really expressed an interest in "searching" for someone local. I'm trying to be patient, but it's a struggle.

Any tips from the community for next steps? She's said she's not really interested in getting on apps/sites to find people. It either needs to happen organically or I need to figure out a way to get her on some apps/sites.