So early 40s couple here , wife has only 1 boyfriend so far for good while now 2 -3 yrs .

We all went out last night it was my birthday ( yay happy birthday to me lol ) Anyways went to a nice restaurant and she sat next to me and he sat front of us , had a good time with both of them , talk was nice and comfortable, To say upfront neither I or wife do any humiliation in public or private, it's just not our thing, and this is one thing we stress about with her ' potential boyfriends ' . So reason why she always sits next to me when we all go out together and they don't do anything that would otherwise indicate otherwise like kiss or hold hands the like you get the point.

Anyways She called a few restaurants in advance to find one with a more private booth and found one and it was very nice intimate and cozy Irish pub , with allowing me to drink a few good pints of ale that she knew would ' loosen ' me up really good after the meal we were still ordering drinks so now I'm at 6 pints and she kept asking me if I was ok , but not like wanting to stop me from drinking but making sure I was enjoying myself, and I was, and said yes I'm feeling really good thank you,

So this is when she got up and slid in next to him across from me , I was feeling fine and loose so it didn't bother me, and she held my hand from across the table and had him hold my hand as well.

I looked up and around, but she squeezed my hand and told me it's us not anyone else don't worry about anyone else ok babe ,

She started to exclaim that she is my wife and loves me , and how much love she has for me and how she really appreciates how I let her have her fun in our marriage and that she doesn't want anything to change. At that I knew something was happening, I was thinking she was trying to soften the blow of breaking up with me and the divorce was only a few words left unsaid , I'm one to always think about the bad in life first , that's just me .

Anyways so I was waiting for it , and as she was talking about how much fun we all are having ( that word WE didn't click at first ) She said they both have something to ask me , Both???

Ok what's the question I said , She continues telling me that Jeff ( her boyfriend ) and I both want to ask You to be " OUR " boyfriend .

I was confused, she said they both like having sex together and also with me included, and she pointed out that since I am already comfortable with him and like him as a person and friend already, and she added how I'm also cleaning up their mess and she said I seem to really enjoy that part a lot ,, Now is where I started sweating.

She reached over to wipe my face , and said Jeff likes you too, he doesn't want to humiliate you or make you feel bad , that's why he lasted this long cause I don't want a boyfriend that belittles my husband. He spoke up and said he really likes me and he has always been BI but was waiting on a proper time, so he asked if I would be " his " boyfriend at the same time as he is " her " boyfriend. I said to both of them , I don't understand.

She said it would be that he continues to be with her like now , but also now it can be the same way with me and him in anything else. She added the fact I like eating her pussy with his cum in and on it and that I seem to enjoy it, and how she caught me giving him deep throat and she watches me swallow his cum from that blowjob, And how I fluff him to get him hard , and the biggest part of how much I seem to enjoy eating his asshole out. I also know how much you love kissing, and said Jeff is a great kisser and they were talking about all that and they both came up with this idea of asking Me if I would like this arrangement.

They were both holding my hand from across the table and I just looked at them , and honestly I wasn't mad or upset .

So I asked what this would mean, like what , how ,when , where and all that . She said I'm keeping my marriage, but I'm opening up the sex both ways , and want you involved and able to enjoy what you want also .

I want you to know that I'm 100% ok with you and Jeff having sex together because you are 100% ok with me having sex with him .

You know he is Bi cause you always say he must be since we've been together and you do enjoy his company and he likes you too, also you seem to love his cum as you have always gobbled it up and how you eat his asshole makes even me jealous a bit at times .

So I want you to know that you have complete freedom with Jeff, like you let me have with him, and we both kinda came up with this idea that asking you if you wanted to be " our " boyfriend, She said she wanted me to be able to make love to Him and him make love to me even in her presence.

He said it's Not one of those poly things , but a special thing where he and I can have sex together with her permission and joining in also, And where he can then claim me as his boyfriend and I can do the same to anyone who we might want to know.

He said how much he wants to make love to me like he does with her , She added she wants both of us to make love to her then make love to ourselves in the same bed with all 3 of us together.

I was really tipsy with all I had to drink and she knew that was how to ask this as I get rather submissive when I drink a bit , She knew when to bring this up ,

So I told them in one condition, And that's only if it's Real .

Meaning can I really make love to him with kissing and holding hands and kissing and bliwjobs and kissing and eating his ass in bed while she is right next to us and kissing and bending over and taking care of him kissing and swallowing his cum ? Kind of stuff . What about if they are at it and really going to town like he does and I want in and will that put a problem on it or will both of you grab me and pull me in the mix .

Can I really kiss him in front of you, knowing that I love kissing and how intimate I get about kissing ,

She said this is exactly what we both want and is why we're asking you , this way especially now cause I know you are more receptive in your drinking condition this is why I wanted you to have some drinks ,

My wife knows I like her boyfriend, really like him . And I truly do like him not only as a friend but also as a sexual partner,

We have already enjoyed all 3 of us sleeping together in bed after a good night of sex and she caught me snuggled up with him I spooned him and was totally on cloud 9 and she just looked in my eyes and knew I was going to enjoy what she brought home .

I asked what this meant with public displays of affection and would this change how we do things now , she said she'd leave that up to me, but added I don't have to worry about humiliation cause that's not on the table anymore as we've always avoided it and public displays of affection.

She said she would be ok with me holding his hand and hers while out and about on a date , and would be happy if I kissed him like that also , asked if I could feel the same or should we stay like we are now .

So wow , I'm going down a different path than most do.

And I think I'm gonna like it cause she had her New relationship energy and now I'm about to go thru that with her boyfriend,

When we got home and Jeff left us I took my wife to bed and it was my first time in my life I blew 3 loads in her , I rearly even get a second load out , So she said well I guess you like this idea after all....

I was Glowing and she said it She was in shock that I was actually glowing, Bitting her lower lip we hugged each other staring in each other eyes ,

I said yes in the morning