I am 52 and my wife is 37 now. She has a great sex drive that I can't match. We have been married for 16 years. In 2021, during COVID, to make things more fun, I convinced her to try a bull dynamic. We met a bull who was 19 years old then, a college student, and is now 23 and has just started a job. He is well-hung (8 inches) and has a good sex drive, and was a virgin when we met him.

We started this with the rule that there would never be solo sex—I would always be with them, holding my wife's hand while bull ponding her, kissing, licking, etc. However, over time, my wife started breaking these rules. For example, I last had sex with her two years ago on my 50th birthday; now she only allows the bull to have sex with her. He comes to our home on average 3 days a week. She caged me six months ago, but I was always with them during their encounters.

I love her a lot, but now she wants a solo week with the bull and also wants to breed. I'm in stress—what should I do now? Is this normal, or am I losing her?