From a lot of discussion and good feedback the solo male post rule has developed into something much more appropriate. It is now listed as the:

First Picture Rule

The first picture, or cover photo of your post should not be a close up shot of your genitalia. This applies to all - males, females and couples. You can post those as second, third, fourth pics etc… just not as your cover shot. We understand that ‘close up’ is subjective and the mod team will have the final say - so to be safe just post something SFW without giving up your anonymity (like your trip booking screenshot).

There will of course be a ton of discussion on this too, but the intent is to keep the feed looking classy, while maintaining our r4r goals for those enjoying cruise vacations. If we do this right, it could be safe enough to scroll through the feed looking for new friends while sitting in the hot-tub or lounging poolside without getting ugly looks!

We aren’t stopping you from posting close up candid pictures, and are not asking you to give up your anonymity, we are just asking that your first picture or cover shot be more PG13 rated instead of X rated!

Thanks in advance to all of you for keeping this one of the best adulting subs on Reddit.