Hey guys I have been a crossdresser since early adolescence. It has been a huge part of my life for many reasons. It helps me disconnect from things bothering me as well as feel more free as a person. I am very comfortable with my sexualuty and masculinity actually I think men who cross dress are extremely comfortable with these things to have the courage to crossdress and not care about opinions. Dressing is also a ferish/kink for me partly because I think being so attracted to women and different style clothes it makes me feel even better to fully embrace that myself. It has changed due to porn I discovered early on ex (forced bi, sissy training) I got pretty into these kinks and because of it I would somewhat bur not totally claim I'm bisexual. Hooking up with men is part of the fetish but only for the sex. I could never ever date a man. I've been with several women who knew about my dressing. I was never fully open about it until my current girlfriend and she is unbelievably supportive and goes shopping with me buys me intimate wear ect. She doesn't mind it in the bedroom and actually loves the fact I can be that vulnerable with her. It's truly opened up our relationship that much more. If you are a woman with a crossdressing partner I would suggest being as open minded as possible and letting them let you into their feminine side at their pace. It truly is a HUGE thing to open up to someone because we spend most of our lives feeling ashamed about it embarrassed and less than a man. I have not hooked up with men since being in this relationship being that I am monogamous. That's my input though. If your partner does lie about certain things like what their buying or when they dress up try nor to overly stress it as it's almost second nature for us to deny and deflect our crossdressing. Obviously if he is being involved with someone else or online doing things he shouldn't than that is not ok. I may just be lucky to have such an open minded girl and healthy relationship but I hope you guys embrace your husband's or significant others and have a happy successful life. Thanks for reading