I have no idea, or do I? Even as a kid, I felt something was off; I was very...different. I do think it's my personality, my demeanor, my hobbies/interests. I grew up a terribly shy, quiet yet bright and inquisitive kid. I was never materialistic (still not), and simple things kept me entertained.

Within my immediate relatives, I was the only girl, many of you know how that goes... I was never popular even outside of the household, but the boys were. Very much so. Super well-liked and respected everywhere they were in the neighborhood and at their school. They were real spoiled too; the latest sneakers and video games galore. I saw how certain relatives treated me vs. them. They loved them but not me.

It's OK though, since I have cut off/disowned these folks and am my own relative now (and forevermore!). I'd like to hear your experiences regarding this. Can you relate?