0) Saying the good old polite shit that we all know here, keeping the tone lighthearted (rinse & repeat until closer connection)

1. The Buzzfeed Quizz = https://www.buzzfeed.com/regajha/how-privileged-are-you

2. The Vice articles :

a. https://www.vice.com/en/article/mbdx7n/100-ways-be-trans-ally-tips

b. https://www.vice.com/en/article/ne95dm/how-to-be-a-white-ally-to-people-of-color

c. https://www.vice.com/en/article/evkwm4/how-to-be-an-ally-to-non-binary-gender-non-conforming-people-support

1. Mistress Velvet work :

a. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/mistress-velvet_n_5a822b50e4b00ecc923d4eba

b. https://www.papermag.com/black-chicago-dominatrix-reparations

c. https://www.them.us/story/mistress-velvet-dominatrix-sex-work-activist-memorial-chicago

1. Showing the "8 white identities" to them, letting time pass.

2. Asking if they do know the works, lives, at least names of Audre Lorde, Frantz Fanon, Malcolm X, BPP (Black Panther Party), James Baldwin, Toni Morrison, Maya Angelou, Joséphine Baker

3. Showing the @ thenapministry,@ decolonizingtherapy, letting time pass.

4. Asking if they read the descriptions, how many posts did they really read and digest ?

Rinse & repeat. Block/Stop/"goodbye them" at any stage of micro-aggressions, gaslighting, etc.