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Coworker thinks I'm obsessed with her.
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Okay this started about two months ago but a coworker of mine thinks I have a problem with her, I really don't but its gotten crazy that I really need to vent what she's been doing atleast as of late. So, this girl let's call her Amy. Amy goes up to our manager at our store and asks if I have a problem with her, my manager comes up to me ask me and I said no I don't have a problem with her at all. This came to me as a shock because Amy and I were working well together and haven't argued or got into a slight verbal fight. So I told him I will talk with her. I told her that I didn't have a problem with her and that if I seem a bit more moody its because I'm pregnant, and that I found out about a week before. I told her that I'm sorry and I thought that was it because after we were good again.

Then fast forward to 2 weeks ago. She's been missing work and showing up late and I start to worry about her. I figured something was going on at her home life and it started to affect her work life. Then our hr person comes up to me and asks if I can switch back to working nights because they were going to fire Amy. I freaked out a bit and was starting to get really worried because honestly she is a good worker. Then comes the crazy part. She goes to our hr person and says again that I have a problem with her. Again no arguments or any talking for that matter especially on the last night that I worked nights. She left me high and dry in our department to the point I had to ask a manager if I could use other people from other departments to help me get heavy things up or take tvs out because Amy wasn't going to help me knowing that I cant lift anything heavy on my own. I told my hr person what's been going on and he agreed that it just seem like miscommunication on both our parts so I agree to talk with her again in his office and boy was it crazy. She started to yell and scream how I don't work, how I'm always going somewhere else and I don't tell her where I'm going. He and I explain that lately they been moving me around the store to help in customer service to verify electronic items that are returned and to help with checking people out up front or even helping managers in the back. Pretty much I'm always working no matter what and all the managers there all know it because they keep pulling me to do smaller tasks that I can do that doesn't involve heavy lifting. Hell one day they even sent me to another store to help i got back and Amy looked pissed at me. She starts to shake and cry and starts to kinda say whats been going on in her own life and turns out CPS was called to her house and she's been dealing with them so kinda explains why she's been stressed out, but when asked if she's talked to me herself she said yes and it was a lie she never once talked to me about how she felt about me and I told her that she didn't help me or talk to me at all my last night shift and she took it as me saying she doesn't work. She starts to go off and screams to look at the cameras that she does work and my hr person said, Amy no one said you didn't work. So I thought this was done we agreed to try to work together. That lasted 24 hours because the next day I had a hour left on my shift and I was trying to get things done in the backroom i asked Jay if he could stay a extra 15 minutes before his break so I can finish up in the back because they were going to take Amy to another department to help put things up. He said no but that he would ask her if she could stay a extra 15 minutes. I get the back done and start to put our expensive items in the lock case and she comes up and yells at me in front of everyone acting like I had asked Jay to ask her for me when her name didn't come out of my mouth. I told Jay what happened and he agreed to talk with her about it and she was not having it at all. Jay was shocked and so was I. I told my hr person what happened and he and I agreed that I'm going to be starting earlier and leaving before she shows up. He asked me if I was comfortable talking with her again I told him no because its becoming too much of a stress that I don't want to talk with her. When I left that day Amy came out pissed off. I found out that he told her that my hours changed but she took it as her loosing hours for some reason and started to tell people at work that I followed her to her home.i don't know where she lives or care to know. Hell I haven't lived in that area since December because my ex kicked me out and I was living with friends for a bit then moved in with family to be closer to work but I'm still not anywhere near that area. I only go there for work and nothing else. Everyone I have talked to all agrees that for some odd reason she picked me for her outlet from her stress and I can tell. She's been telling people that I'm evil and cunning and a liar but everyone she's told has told me what she has said so its not like she really has any allies at work because they all see that she's going nuts. Sorry this was a long one but damn even writing this it still blows my mind.

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