I've seen a few comments about saying rape is rape. But I feel that it is an ignorant notion and people won't say that because of how serious rape is, because anyone who drinks can imagine how easy it is for anyone to fall into this situation, both the "rapist" and the victim.

In the past I may have had the dumb opinion that it can't be rape if you're both drunk and the scenes the other week do make me feel different, I just can't agree with people referring to Aaron as a rapist, even if what he done was technically rape. I feel terms like rapists should be reserved for the vile scum who force themselves upon others with a "clear state of mind".

I do however really believe that while I don't feel any legal punishment is necessary, accountability and learning to be better is necessary for Aaron. What though? I don't know. Its easy to say to not have sex while drunk, but look at the embarrassing shit we see or are told that we have done while drunk.