So, a while back (like a year or so) I matched with this cute guy on tinder. He was super nice and everything and we got along so well.

After a while we started sexting and our chats were filled with what not rather provocative content.

One day, this man asks me for my IG and I gave it to him— few minutes later I get a notification that my videos etc. are getting saved to camera roll, my heart starts beating so bad that idk what to do. The guy returns to me with a picture of my IG followers and saying “Unless you want everything shared, this is how we’re going to do this.”

He made me send more and worse material, money and made me do things I would never do, if I didn’t he’d share everything.

Anyhow, consent was not involved but it made me realise that I’ve actually never been this turned on. The idea that someone actually owned me and I had no free will, I had no options than to obey.

I really hope I get to react this with someone but I also want the physical aspect to it, removing the no from the equation as a whole.

Anyway just a little story time, I started to think I about the guy and I miss him so instead of finding his socials I’m venting here.

Tl;dr Got blackmailed and it turned me on.