Hi guys this is my first reddit post (using throwaway account). (26m) I'm in a long distance relationship from past 5yrs with a childhood friend (26f) of mine.

She is a virgin and has a pact of not loosing her virginity before marriage. We have come to a conclusion of having sex but avoid penetrating pussy and rather than looking into anal sex. She has a fantasy of doing it first time as forced sex. I'm asking around for tips in order to make this experience better for both parties.

I have thought about making contract like a Dom sub and deciding boundaries, deciding safe words. I have thought of including discussion the scenarios and plays.. whether to include ties and other things.

Any suggestions would be helpful.