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One of the simplest approaches to getting more girls, hotter girls, or whatever you're missing with girls is to put some structure around your game. Like anything in which you want to succeed, that structure often comes in the form of a making a plan.
A plan does two things for you:
- It lays out specific goals to accomplish so you're not simply going around and hitting on girls by chance. Rather you are systematically structuring your game for maximum results.
- It motivates you at the critical moment; during those precious seconds when you have to make a choice to approach or not. To escalate or not. To free-flow and say what's on your mind, or hold back. When you have a plan, you must take that extra risk or the plan will never come to fruition.
Simple Ways To Create A Plan
Step 1 - Identify 1 thing that would make you happy within a certain time period. For example, "one month from now, my life with girls would be significantly improved if.......[and identify what is missing].
Step 2 - Identify 1 or 2 "sticking points" that are the most likely to prevent you from achieving the goal in Step 1.
Step 3 - Identify what actions you need to take and/or skills you need to learn to overcome the sticking points in Step 2. Assign a time frame in which those actions will be completed / skills acquired.
Step 4 - Identify the # of girls you will approach/date/escalate upon (based on whatever the goal is in Step 1). Step a time-frame for completion.
While this may sound unnecessary, the most successful men in anything (whether it's getting girls, starting a business or whatever, created a plan in order to accomplish it). Give it a try. You've got nothing to lose and tons of women to gain.
If you'd like further detail on creating a One Week Plan in order to start succeeding with girls where you're currently struggling, check out this video.
Also check out this top trending video on gaining confidence around women: Take More Risks
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