I've been with my gf for about 6 years now, our sex life has become a little boring. But I still love her a lot. We go on dates, I cook for her take care of her but in bed it's almost as if she is asexual, and it's not like I've tried not doing something different, I got different toys and got different things to spice things up but we still barely bave sex and it's mostly me who initiates it.

But recently I've found out that one of my huge kink is to get off other peoples significant others. So this new found love has got me into a deep hole where I try and search people who will feed me with their wife or gf where I appreciate everything about them and am respectful to the max level. Right now All I'm doing is virtually which technically still counts for cheating i suppose, but in the near future I'd also want to be physical someday.

I'm not really sure if thats a great idea or not since 'physical' is the only area i lack right now.

Would love to hear your thoughts.