I’ve been married for 18 years to my high school sweetheart. Over the summer while he and I were at the gym, we met a guy that goes to college at the college near our home. He was immediately flirting with me in front of my husband. At first we downplayed it but as it kept happening and he got more bold and started asking me out, we both admitted it turned us on. We agreed to meet him out one night with the intent if things went well we would get a hotel room. Needless to say, they did so we did. Things quickly escalated at the hotel and I ended up in bed with him while my husband watched. Fast forward seven months now and we are still together. Some nights he comes by us but I also started going to his dorm room after work and seeing him for a few hours before coming home to our family. It’s still so hot for us and the careless nature we go about things has been such a turn on for us. I can be with him acting one way and just get dressed, drive home to my family and act like nothing happened.