My wife (27) and I (33), a South Asian couple now living in the U.S., are knee-deep in exploring the 24/7 TPE lifestyle, and we're desperate for help. I work in IT, she's an RN, and we’re childless – my infertility is a huge factor in all this, a gaping hole in my masculinity I’ve struggled to fill. This, combined with my own inherent submissiveness, has thrown a wrench in our marriage. That’s when we started looking for ways to compensate, to fulfill this deep-seated need for dominance and control in our lives.

My wife, bless her incredibly submissive heart, is all in. Out of the bedroom, she’s a quiet, reserved woman. But behind closed doors…well, let's just say her desire to submit is intense. I’m submissive too, a fact that’s made satisfying our desires a complicated equation. We both craved a life beyond simple vanilla sex and started discussing how to satisfy these cravings in a healthy relationship.

Initially, we explored the online BDSM scene. We had online doms, but it just wasn't cutting it. We needed the physicality, the tangible presence of a Master to truly submit to. That’s when we discovered the 24/7 TPE lifestyle – a complete lifestyle shift, not just bedroom antics. We’re both hooked.

The 24/7 aspect is what truly enthralls us. It's this constant awareness that everything we do, every decision, needs our Master’s approval. It's a level of control we both crave, a complete surrender of our autonomy. We’ve found a Master online who fits the bill perfectly - a true Sir, who commands respect and obedience.

Our days are structured around his commands. He assigns tasks via a group chat, a mixture of joint and individual activities:

• Joint Tasks: He dictates our daily schedules, from what we eat to when we sleep. Yesterday, it involved my wife meticulously cleaning the entire house while I filmed her, sending him the videos complete with commentary on my abject devotion to their cleanliness. One particularly memorable task involved us both performing a humiliating choreographed apology video because we didn't finish dinner on time. The punishment? A whole night of silent servitude and a night alone without each other.
• Individual Tasks: My wife's individual tasks are often overtly sexual. Sir assigns her explicit photos and videos, detailing poses, expressions, and even specific angles and lighting. I'm forbidden to see any of these; they're for his eyes only. My tasks are more about self-degradation and obedience. He’ll make me write self-deprecating essays detailing my inadequacies, or perform repetitive physical tasks until I'm exhausted and begging for mercy. The power imbalance is absolute.

The sexual aspect is, of course, a significant element. Sex itself is tightly controlled. He dictates when and how we have sex, including positions, the types of toys we use, even who initiates. We often have to wait for his permission to touch each other. His commands often include explicit humiliation and degradation, sometimes incorporating elements of bondage or sensory deprivation. I’ll leave the specifics to your imagination (or perhaps, to a future update).

Punishments are swift and varied. He might make us perform extra chores, write lengthy apologies, or endure periods of sexual deprivation. Rewards, on the other hand, are few and far between, making them all the more precious. A simple “Well done, slave” can send shivers down our spines. He might allow us a specific sexual act, a moment of physical closeness (which usually involves humiliation), or simply a period of rest from more degrading tasks.

The whole thing sounds crazy, I know. But the feeling of complete surrender, of relinquishing control, is incredibly arousing and incredibly satisfying. It's a level of devotion and submission that I, in my previously weak position, never thought possible. We're not just fulfilling a sexual fantasy; we’re living a completely transformed life dictated by our Master.

The problem? It’s all online. We crave the real thing, the physical presence of a Master. The feeling of a Master’s hand on our bodies, the taste of his whip on our skin, the sheer power of his physical presence ruling our lives. We need a real-life Sir, a genuine Master who can be with us 24/7, to manage our lives. We’re actively searching. We are completely and utterly committed to this lifestyle.

This is a confession of our deepest desires, our most profound humiliations, and our desperate search for a real-life Master to fulfill our 24/7 TPE lifestyle.