I had this rule with my ex-boyfriend whereby I could demand to be eaten out whenever I wanted and he had to follow. While I am a very submissive type and he was typically very dominant, we both agreed that we wanted to explore maybe changing the dynamic a little bit.

At first, I used to text him to come by my dorm room; I was usually watching porn and already playing with myself, waiting for him. He would try to make eye contact with me while eating me out, but I would either cover him with a blanket or tell him to close his eyes and focus on eating me out so I could watch the video.

We then started to get more and more kinky. While I was taking a break between the classes, I would text him to meet me in the college bathroom. Alternatively, I would simply tell him to follow me into the restroom when we were both in the library studying. Once, I insisted he eat me out while my roommate was asleep in a bed next to us.

Usually, when I finished, I would tap him on the head and tell him he had been a good boy. I loved the way he looked at me each time I finished, wanting and begging for more, like a puppy begging for a snack. We did have sex apart from this "experiment," of course.

Anyway, that experience allowed me to find my "dominant" side.