Im married and my wife is still very attractive to me. But her younger sister (22) is so much nicer to me than she is all the time.. She’s also very attractive. It’s causing me to have sexual thoughts about her.

The same sister in law recently sent me some text messages and then quickly unsent them. She’s freshly in her early twenties and she’s in her partying years and I can’t help but sit here and wonder if she was sending me accidental drunk texts about things she wants to do.

I know it’s not likely but I deeply wish she felt the way I do. I wish she would send me some signals beyond just being so kind that would show me she’s into me.

I have caught her accidentally flashing me once or twice - but it’s hard to tell if it was actually accidental or if she was trying to get my attention.

Either way - my obsession keeps getting bigger and bigger and I wish she would just flash me her pussy for real or accidentally send me nudes one day. Maybe even allow me to stumble onto nudes secretly or put me in a position where we would be forced to be alone.

Should I tell her how I feel? Should I try to be covert? I know it would be cheating, but these thoughts are driving me mad…