I am 34M and my wife is 29. She is Asian and I am white European and we are living happily together in another European country. She only had one ex, a Spanish guy, and they only had sex a couple of times, they mostly did oral sex (a lot of it from her account).

I always found it odd that she would gladly suck him without a condom, but in our first months of our relationship she would make me wear a condom to suck my dick. I kinda felt cucked and lesser cause of that, but we went past it and now she sucks me without condom.

What I found bizarre was that she recently asked me a weird question after 4 years together and one year in marriage. She was stroking my cock (I am quite sizeable, about 7 inches) and while we were getting in the mood, she suddenly asked me: Is it true what they say about black men?

I was flabbergasted and at first I thought she was joking but she was genuinely asking. I asked her: why would you ask me this? To which she replied, oh I am sorry I didn't mean to disrespect you or our moment, it's just that you are quite big already, yet I have heard rumours that black guys are super big and was curious.

I was hurt by this discussion given the sensitivity of our moment together, but I was also turned on by the fact that she was thinking of BBCs while stroking my cock.

I must confess I do have a cuck fantasy (we fantasised a lot about it with my ex and I had bought her a bbc dildo to cuck me - we broke up but if we had stayed together longer I am sure we would have proceeded with a cuck experience). And my wife's question has triggered this in me again.

Do you think my Asian wife is fantasising about cucking me with a BBC? And what should I do given that I confronted her and she won't say she has this fantasy? I am thinking of buying her a BBC dildo and see how it goes...