Is it normal? My fantasy? As l've got a little older, my fantasy of my wife being pleasured and pleasuring another man of her choosing is getting stronger. I have briefly told her about it, but then got too embarrassed and shut the convo down. She was not horrified or disgusted by any means. I've seen here eye shopping at other men many times (still very frequent) which I know is normal as I'm guilty of eye shopping at other women. We have added dildos to the bedroom but she prefers the real deal. I'm wanting to bring it up again to see if she'd be open or interested in the idea. I'm just nervous not because she'd say yes or no but more so if I were to offend her by even asking. She does joke all the time about having boyfriends ( they are truly just jokes). So it makes me wonder. I would love for it to happen and come true just once.